VDAY in New Orleans
I don’t even know where to begin, to explain the experience I just had in New Orleans these past few days. Urban Zen Foundation hosted a Well-Being Lounge at Eve Ensler’s VDAY/SuperLove celebration of VTOTHETENTH. Over 30,000 women came to the Superdome - it was their first time back since they were housed there in the immediate aftermath of Hurricane Katrina. First when I arrived, it was truly a profound experience to be in the building that was so seriously part of the recent history of our country. I am sensitive that way. When Donna’s husband, Stephan Weiss first passed away - it took me a year to walk into his studio (where I now work out of) without shedding a tear. There is something about monumental buildings, whether personal or deeply special, that sends chills down my spine. Anyhoo..Upon arrival, the UZF team worked in an insane and intense amount of time to make this lounge into an Urban Zen-esq experience for the women of the Gulf to get a taste of what our healing methods are all about. Massage, yoga, nutrition and aromatherapy were the 4 modalities that were represented. We had arranged for 150 therapists/yoga teachers/aromatherapists from around the country to volunteer and pamper these women with love and attention. We set the room up with massage tables, yoga mats, a nutrition bar where we served fresh watermelon and mint juices. I believe that 5,000 women walked thru our door. By day 2, other lounges merged with ours, as we were full of foot traffic. Our friends and sponsors like nutritionists Kris Carr of Crazy Sexy Life and Jill Pettijohn of www.jillpettijohn.com held the juice bar along side the Tsalon who served chilled tea, Gaiam donated the yoga mats, my beloved Young Living Oils were a huge hit offering these ladies essential oil education and bottles to go home with, and so on. Dr. Jamie Naughright, Rodney Yee and Colleen Saidman really made this healing event exemplify Urban Zen’s purpose. Even a few of our UZIT’s (Urban Zen Integrative Therapists as Jamie calls them) showed up from New York. We are in the process of training them to go into Beth Israel Medical Center as we speak.. the pilot program that was launched at the Well-Being Forum a year ago next month.Simultaneously, on the main floor, inspirational speakers, dancers, and a plethora of special women and some men got up on stage and spoke about the hope that the audience can have for the future. I think assuring the women that they were not alone…and support was there…was evident in every woman who walked out of that room. It was so powerful. This was the second VDAY event that I’ve been apart of. The first was back in 2004 where I produced a poster ad campaign for www.50millionwomenvote.orgкомпютри, which was in partnership with my client at the time, Moveon.org. Everyone from Jane Fonda, Gloria Steinhem, Isabella Rossellini to Rosario Dawson, Vanessa Carlton took the picture for the poster ad. It was a blast to produce. I cherish Eve Ensler and her team, Susan Swan, Purva Pandy and Cecile Lipworth. Not to mention the phenomenal event producers Kevin Sanford, Ed Murphy and Doug Cook who without UZF couldn’t have accomplished what it did. Working a 72-hour stretch with maybe 6 hours of sleep in total, is always a spanking to my mind, body and soul but I did my best to help out… I was “on loan” for this event as I am knee deep in producing our Spirituality for Kids event next month but it didn’t matter – it felt like a mini- Well-Being Forum level of physical labor that was exerted. My co-worker Yonghee Joe was magnificent at setting up the whole space. However when I saw these women, who basically have so little, get their first massage in life, I know that, no matter what my circumstances are. I would have done a 144 hour stretch with 12 hours sleep for them to have this experience and hopefully transform their lives, even in a small way.Oddly, a man came in at 730am on day 2 and just showed up. He was big and burly with a strong southern accent. He came right to me as I was hanging the RAISE AWARENESS INSPIRE CHANGE signs all over the door and said, “I heard what y’all were doing down here”.. I said “yes” – and, then, with his big heart wide open and a profound tear in his eye, said “I am so humble for what you are doing for my city, that I came here to help you!” and he started hanging signs with me. He has NO idea how much he affected me and at the end of the day, I gave him a big smile full of pure love and admiration. I heard tons of stories this weekend where my heart was wrenched. And, for some reason, the hope in this man’s being was just beautiful to me that I know I am meant to help others in this lifetime. Another special moment related to a circle of humorous, loud women (kinda stuck out in our mellow zone of healing), they just looked so full of life. I was walking by and this woman in a bright yellow top was screaming in her fun Southern accent, “We are SISTAHS helping SISTAHS!” Again…a giggle came from within. My other favorite memory was when I had been in charge of playing Gabrielle Roth’s music in the lounge throughout the event, and DK’s delicious healer, Ruth Pontvianne changed out the music for a few hours. Suddenly, in the most chill, quiet, rhythmic time Brazilian hip hop started blasting thru the speakers… I jumped so high to change it back J it was hilarious! PS Gabrielle Roth danced on the main stage for what she called “15 Minutes of Ecstasy” – she had all the ladies in the audience up, out of their chairs sweating and MOVIN’ THEIR BODIES! The energy just lifted, I wanted her to do it again and again it was soooo much fun!Two more personal highlights of the weekend…when I first got onto the main floor of the Superdome, my eye caught a film crew off to the side shooting Eve … Now imagine this HUGE stadium, 3x the size of Madison Square Garden in my mind and as my eyes focus in.. I see my beloved Barbara Kopple, the two-time Academy Award Winning Director for whom I was fortunate enough to produce her Hamptons Mini-Series for ABC Television 7 years ago.. I hadn’t seen her for a few years and lets just say it was a personal LOVEFEST for me as well. Then, at the after party of the Vagina Monologues performance on Saturday night, I had seen the beautiful actress, Kerry Washington, who just left the stage. Kerry and I have had a very fun history between us, as years ago she used to come to all of my Moveon.org events. We would always smile at each other back then. Well.. about four years ago my dad had called me and said, “Rach – do you know this young actress.. Kerry Washington?”, I said , “Um Dad.. she was at my event last night.. why?” Turns out that our dads were the bestest of friends to the point where her parents were at my parents’ wedding (who have been divorced for 33 years). So, when Kerry and I saw each other at the party, after not seeing each other after that connection had been made, we were huggggggginggggggg. A Katrina victim came up to us in the midst of it and started telling us her story…she had lost her husband, her son, her cousin and 3 other important people in her life in the hurricane… she was telling us about the hardship of how FEMA had only given her $350 and now they are trying to get her money back. Kerry and I were squeezing each other from this…and again.. I felt how fortunate I was…and, even more so, I know even more that my mission in life is to act as a AGENT OF CHANGE for as many people as I can, no matter at what levels I can have an impact. Now I wasn’t going down to New Orleans and not experiencing the hurricane’s streets firsthand. I was fortunate that I had first visited this incredible city a few weeks before Katrina hit, and had made a few friends there. At that time, I was dating a man from New Orleans, with whom I still remain close, so it was such an important thing for me to go back there. When the hurricane first hit, I was still a publicist for my family’s PR firm and I instantly I started a clothing drive for Anthony and my friend Angela’s family and friends, out of my own office in NYC. I worked nights, weekends, got FEDEX accounts donated and did what I could to immediately send relief to the few I had in my close range because, really, who knew where the bigger relief engines donations were ending up. I’m not hating on them but if you know me, I’m very hands-on and I feel better when I’ve touched someone as closely, and personally, as possible. So, before my flight home on Sunday, in my utter exhaustion, my dear friend Angela drove me thru the 9th Ward and it was so profound. First, because she had lived it and thankfully her family gotten out before the hurricane hit. Anyway, the sadness of seeing the deserted, desolate streets of broken down houses and signs on the homes saying “2 DEAD DOGS HERE” or “AMERICA NEEDS HELP”, were so mind-blowing! It was smacked in my face that this is what is going on in my country and I thought what is our government doing about it. How could we be spending TRILLIONS in Iraq, yet we can’t save one of America’s great cities…and its people…our citizens. I had ANGER inside. Then a Porsche convertible with the top down with music blasting drove by us. I thought to myself “Are you kidding me?” Then I saw a couple playfully riding their bicycles thru the barren streets.. And I thought to myself.. What’s next? Disney???? As I arrived at the airport and reality set in, that once again, I had this life-altering experience on many challenging and celebratory levels, a solid representation of the wonderful people that were on my journey this weekend were on the plane with me. Gabrielle, Barbara, her crew (which included David Hocs, a sound man I’ve known for 10 years whose shoulder thankfully was my pillow on the flight home), Kevin and even the queen of the weekend herself, Eve Ensler. I sat diagonally behind this incredible visionary of a woman wondering what must have been going thru her mind.. and how she was completely glowing from her baby (VDAY) being all grown up! I caught eye to her New Balance sneakers for some odd reason and thought to myself throughout the flight, I hope I can walk in those comfortable shoes one day and hands-on effect the world as she did. What an inspiration!!!!
